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Trust Issues and Liars, is my topic on this week’s “Bleeding Heart Chronicles”. Good morning, love. I have spoken to many broken people this week who are ready to give up. Whether it be back stabbing friends or game playing relationships, the damage is all the same. It’s funny how these very people who are guilty of carelessly wrecking people’s lives. Are the very ones who have the nerve to wonder where are all the good people at to date or be friends with? Hello! YOU broke them! They now have trust issues. At some point, we’ve all been here. You have trust issues because other people, have lying issues! Sometimes, just when You think You know people, they disappoint you in ways You never thought they could. Sometimes you don’t know who you can and cannot trust. I still learn that, over and over and over again. Just know, the trust of the innocent is the liars most useful tool.
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So how should we deal with liars? Don’t trust words, trust actions. It’s easy for someone to say I love you or I’m your friend. Give them the opportunity to prove it. Deeds, not words! You may be damaged, broken and have trust issues now, but do not go around telling people you are. This enforces the idea into your head. Instead, say I’m healing, I’m rediscovering myself and I’m starting over. You need to hear yourself say this. Because YOU make it the truth. There’s an old saying, Trust is like an eraser, it gets smaller and smaller after every mistake. But I like, A relationship without trust is like having a phone with no service. And what do you do with a phone with no service?? YOU play games!!!! And that is exactly what happens. People who lie have no integrity! YOU are worth the truth!! Disappointments and heartaches are life’s way of saying I’ve got something better for you. Problems are not stop signs! They are guide lines. Keep moving! Life is not about the problems or the troubled people that cross our path. It’s about how we react to each situation. People who lie and play games are toxic. They create drama and BS. And they drain a lot of positive energy from you. Cut these people from your life and be thankful when they are gone. Removing negative people and things from your environment allows for positive things to come into your life. And creates a better atmosphere for you to obtain happiness. Every exit, is an Entrance into something better! Don’t let mistrust become your identity! Rebuilding trust with others who will come into your life takes time. So, give yourself time. We go through problems because we are stronger then we imagined. We are being prepared for something better, higher and more exciting.
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When you’ve reached the end of your rope. And the winds of mistrust and lies are swaying in your life. Tie a knot in your rope and hold on! Brave the troubled winds! Do not look down at the distance you’ve come. And do not worry about the people who want to bring you down, they are already below you. Instead look up to see where you are moving. Look up to see the hand reaching down to pull you up further to a better place. There are others on this rope. I am on this rope. We can all bind together. We all climb together. Together, we are unstoppable, my love! WE will master the winds!
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Niklaus Corvinus Moroi
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