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Powering up Happiness (Part 1), is my topic on this week’s “Bleeding Heart Chronicles”. Good morning, love. If you take a look around in today’s environment. It’s easy to see with the hardships and hassles, it becomes a challenge to be happy. Not only that, but miserable people do NOT want you to be happy either. [gap size=”8px”] Just take a good look at social media. People post how unhappy they are. They spew their hatred for other people. They judge a situation before fact checking and are hostile towards other points of view. These same people can not explain intelligently why they believe what they believe or why they are even so upset in the first place. These people are Not rooted in any kind of principles and they spread their negativity like a disease. And more people live their life on social media. And add in the job you do, that you don’t like. The financial hardship situation you now face. Maybe the problems your kids are having. Then the arguments you’re having with your significant other. Is it no wonder with all the stresses we face of everyday life, that happiness can feel like a fairy tale? [gap size=”8px”] You have 2 choices. You can go along with the program, and hope that the circumstances in your life will improve and you find happiness. I guess by magic! Or get determined to make your happiness happen no matter what the circumstances you face. There are 2 things you need to form a solid foundation to build on, which the people spewing hatred lack. You must be solidly grounded in compelling principles and assess all your situations with pure facts. This will lay the foundation to start you on your path to happiness. [gap size=”8px”] What if there is No tomorrow for you? This is all you have, Today! Would this force you to really live your life? This completely destroys a saying I hear often that I have thought was BS the first time it was uttered. It is the very saying that was the final straw that caused me to write the Bleeding Heart Chronicles. ‘If it’s meant to be, it Will be’. This is the lies we enjoy hearing when our situation seems hopeless. It will never be! Not while you sit on your butt doing nothing about it!!. I heard a much better saying. ‘If it’s gonna be, It’s up to Me!’. Exactly. There are many sayings we love to hear that simply is not true. And believing these lies cause us to miss opportunities to be happy. Just like the saying, He/She makes me happy. Wrong! No one should ever be responsible for making you happy. You are in total control of your own happiness whether you want to be or not. [gap size=”8px”] Another thing I hear. Rich people are miserable. Not exactly. You can have money and truly be happy. It’s just that money is not what is making you happy. It’s your frame of mind. That is why you can see some people with great looks, money, their health, power and they’re still miserable. They have a negative frame of mind. You need to realize like everything else in life. Happiness requires work. Yeah, I know. Your job already requires you to work at it. Your relationship requires you to work at it. And on top of everything else that requires your precious time, being happy does too. Now I will be covering some steps in part 2. We will go over how to frame your mind right and the other challenges to seek out happiness. Meanwhile, reflect over the things I’ve said so far.To summarize.
. Live each day like it’s your last
. Decide to be happy
. Your happiness depends on you and what you do
. Your attitude and frame of mind will help form your happiness
. Your happiness requires you to work at it.
[gap size=”8px”] I will be covering much more in part 2. [gap size=”8px”] We may live in a world of negativity. But we can make a decision not to become part of the downward spiral. Refuse to fall into the victim mentality. Every day can be an opportunity to be happy. We can choose to fill as many moments as possible in our life with happiness. We can control our own emotional state by our attitude in life. As always. I stand with you. I bleed with you. We will pursue a brighter day and happiness in our life. We will overcome roadblocks that impede our happiness. Because Together we are unstoppable, my love! WE will be Happy! Always and forever!
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Lord Freakzilla is a passionate and resourceful creative writer, experienced in studies of human behavior and psychology. His articles for “Bleeding Heart Chronicles “ is fueled by his compassion for the broken hearted. He also brings to the table his gothic poetry style for “Dark Rose Poems” series.