People who play mind games, is my topic on this week’s “Bleeding Heart Chronicles”. Good morning, love. Put your trays in an upright position my loyal readers. I’m in rare form today and it’s gonna be a bumpy ride. I wanted to start off with a certain readers story who wrote me. But she made me promise not to tell her story in the Chronicles. It’s gut wrenching I assure you. Let me just say. After we spoke, I had to fight the urge to hop a plane and fly to where she was and teach the boy….Yes I said boy in her life some manners, southern style. Thankfully I have small kids who anchor me down into reality. Yes I experience moments of emotion, we all do. I just admit mine! lol. So instead I will briefly tell you of another readers story.
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5 days ago I was speaking to this woman. Bless her soul, a very sweet lady. She told me of the man she was in love with. They were together for several years. He suddenly dumps her and gets a new lady right away. She’s hurt of course. Weeks later just as she’s trying to recover her life, he steps right back in. She loves him, so she takes him back. Weeks down the road. He dumps her again. This time, he marries a new woman. She’s devastated. But months later she gets her life in order and starts dating. Just as she’s getting settled in her new life and new person. The guy that dumped her goes crawling back. crying. Says he’s getting a divorce and loves her and he made a huge mistake. Just enough to mess her up again and put her life back into chaos. And on and on it goes. And I do mean there’s more, but you get the picture! This is not gender based either. I know a lot of women who pull the same exact stunts on men. I really must know……what the Hell is wrong with people today? Seriously!!
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It’s not just relationships but the dating scene as well. You make a date, they’re all excited. The day before the date something comes up. You realize they are toying with you. You walk away. They come back making all kinds of excuses. But I love the ones, as soon as you walk away and start over. Decide to tell you they love you. Then they don’t. Few weeks later…..it’s a broken record. I love you…..well maybe not……wait… yes I do….but …..well maybe not…..wait yes…well. Sorry this isn’t love!! It’s called your confused, why? Cause the one confused wants control. Control over you. It’s one big mind game. I can tell you what I think. The person that does this is very insecure. They want to live their life getting everything. Probably spoiled as a child. They feel you are a great person and don’t want to lose you cause they see your worth. But, they want to experience everything life has to offer without you and for you to wait. Thats right, they want you to wait while they do their thing. Then later come back. But when you try to move on, they go into panic mode. These people are extremely toxic. Yes they may want you in their life, but don’t fool yourself. It isn’t love you are walking away from. Don’t walk. Run!!
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Liking someone is not complicated. Loving someone isn’t complicated. People make a simple thing, into a world wide catastrophe . All anyone has to do is be honest and be real. Why do we need so many games? Why must a woman or a man test the other to see if they truly like them? Why must a everyone be so confused about what they want? Stop this insanity!! The funny thing is, Lies don’t end relationships the truth does! They say life is 10% what happens to you and 90% how you react to it. That is very true. So think before you react to a bad situation. You can always turn it, and make it better. Because being optimistic is the faith that leads to achievement. We can do nothing without hope and confidence. Our past hurts can not be changed. But our future is in our power!! Demand respect by respecting yourself first. You should expect a certain amount of respect from people. Yes, I know, very few practice any kind of respect or loyalty. But that shouldn’t change our attitude on being better then they are. Be real even when others are fake. Be true in the mist of lies. The moment you are true to yourself and you hold onto your faith. Is the moment you experience peace.
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When lovers, continue to hurt you over and over. Just know, this is not the love you were looking for. Know that something better awaits you. Peace is still waiting on you. Happiness is still waiting for you to find it. What you seek is still out there, patiently waiting for you to discover it. Don’t mind these dark times. They often mask something greater headed your way. I stand in the darkness for you. Because I believe a single flame can burn against all darkness!! Feel the energy from my flame. I support you. I bleed with you. And Together, we will kick these mind game players to the curb where they belong. Because Together we are unstoppable, my love! WE will master all games! Always and forever!
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Lord Freakzilla is a passionate and resourceful creative writer, experienced in studies of human behavior and psychology. His articles for “Bleeding Heart Chronicles “ is fueled by his compassion for the broken hearted. He also brings to the table his gothic poetry style for “Dark Rose Poems” series.
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