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People who Disrespect You, is my topic on this week’s “Bleeding Heart Chronicles”. Good morning, love. This topic has been a long time coming. As I get messages from more and more of you. It’s plain to see your relationships are leading to an overwhelming amount of disrespect. I want to say, I do enjoy hearing from you and my heart truly bleeds for so many of you. One of the leading causes for you to get disrespected is, you no longer respect yourself. That’s right, I know what I just said isn’t going to be popular. But it’s time I gave some of you some hard love. Cause I care about you love. You deserve to be happy and you deserve to have some kind of respect. But you can’t expect someone to respect you before you first respect yourself. There are many different ways to be disrespected. I’m talking about you losing your identity in a relationship. You losing yourself. Everyone’s identity changes some in a relationship. But I’m talking about you sacrificing so much out of love, that you forget who you are, and lose your own self respect.
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A few quick signs you’ve lost your identity in a relationship. 1) Your self-confidence has shrunk. 2) You’ve compromised your standards. 3) You let him/her have their way most of the time (if not all). 4) Your social life is an epic fail. 5) You seek his/her approval every time. 6) You’ve stopped doing the things that make you feel like you’re “you” anymore. 7)You’ve stopped pushing for what truly is the best for you. So how does losing your identity cause disrespect? Your partner no longer knows you and will treat you like a stranger. And of course the more you allow, the more encouraged they feel to abuse you in such a way. You empower them by completely giving yourself over. I’m not saying you’ll never be disrespected even if everything is in line. People are people. I’m saying we sometimes encourage the behavior.
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Never lose yourself in the process of loving someone and forgetting just how special you are too. Your uniqueness is your identity, Don’t lose it. Relationships are not about changing who you are. It’s about changing your relationship to who you are. You should be in sync with your partner, or maybe they are not the one. Your identity cannot be found or fabricated but emerges from within when you let go. Respect yourself and except who you are and others will also. If not! Give them the boot! You don’t need any negativity in your precious life. Don’t rush into a relationship because of the fear of being single, cause next you’ll be making compromises and losing yourself. Learn to love yourself just as you are. The more you love yourself, the less nonsense you’ll tolerate.
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When relationships leave you sad and disrespected. Just know, Sometimes when things are falling apart they may actually be falling into place. Not one drop of your self-worth should ever depend on the acceptance of your partner. You can listen to others as you have listened to me, but NEVER lose your own voice. I have heard you and I see the beauty you possess inside that awaits to emerge. I stand with you. I support you. I bleed with you.Together, you and I will overcome those that disrespects us and causes us to lose our identity. Because Together we are unstoppable, my love! WE will master Respect! Always and forever!
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