Dealing with fake love, is my topic on this week’s “Bleeding Heart Chronicles”. Good morning, love. This topic was requested by a lady who follows my articles. Although hers deals with fake love from family members. I’ll cover fake love in general. So, you’re in love. They love you. You have the most breathtaking times together. You know you’re going to be together forever. And then it happens. You’re not together anymore. And you’re not exactly sure what happened. They said they’d love you forever! But forever turned out to be short-lived.
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It’s hard to define love. It is not a one size fits all. Love can only be defined by the individuals that are involved in it. Each love relationship can be as unique as the person who lives it. What works for one couple may not work for the next. So never compare what you have to others. All you need to know is if it works for you and only you can answer that. To me personally, I believe there is a difference between loving someone and being in love. Being in love, is what you feel for someone you marry or is your soul mate. It’s very intense. Unfortunately when you are in love, it can be harder to identify if the other person is giving you true love or fake love back. There are many people who have gotten their heart broken because of fake love. So it does present a problem.
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The problem with fake love is that we except what we think we feel back and do not observe the actual actions they are performing. When you feel loved, you are happy. This happiness can make you blind to the actions. So how do we feel love if it’s fake? a lot of times the love that we are projecting onto them, is actually reflecting back like a mirror. It’s an illusion of what we just gave them. So that leaves us looking for signs.
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Here are a few signs that the person is not practicing true love with you.
1. They only worry about themselves.
2. They lie to your face without feeling remorse.
3. They are short tempered with you.
4. They do not endure or forgive your mistakes.
5. They do not make time for you in their busy schedule.
6. They do not include you in important events.
7. They are not around when you need them the most.
8. They are not humble or kind.
9. They are always willing to give up and walk away.
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If a person loves you they should be able to make sacrifices from time to time to make you happy. They should also be proud enough to show you off to family and friends. A person who truly loves you will never get tired of giving you many chances and will never give up in times of misunderstandings. Putting you first should not be a difficult decision for them. If they truly love you, you will be the first thing they think of in the mornings and the last thing they think about at night. Life is short, so spend your time with those who love you unconditionally. Although walking away is an option in romance, its not when it’s family. All you can do to minimize the hurt in family relationships, is limit your exposure.
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I‘ve heard it asked, no one forced them to love me, so why did they need to pretend? That’s a good question. In family matters, of course, they have to pretend in order to save face and give illusion everything is ok. But with romance, a number of things could play into it. One aspect, is they recognize your worth and see how having you with them could benefit them in many ways. Although they know they don’t love you they pretend in order to squeeze everything out of you they can before they run out of time. Eventually, the signs bubble to the top. But loving someone with all your heart and soul and getting it wrong is not something to be ashamed of. Happens to us all.
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When fake love breaks your heart and leaves you in the dark, just know It’s better to not have anybody, than to have someone who is half there or doesn’t want you at all. You may think what you feel inside is hate for the person who did not share your love. But it’s really disappointment. I heard a saying, Everyday thousands of break ups occur. The reason behind them is simple. One of them is not a real lover of the other. So do not let this weigh you down. You’re not saying goodbye to love. You’re saying goodbye to the wrong person for you. We will feel our pain, but we will grow from it. Fake love is just words and gestures. Real love can be shown, seen and felt. I stand with you. I feel pain with you. I bleed with you. And Together, we will rise above fake love. We will pursue our happiness and find real love. Because Together we are unstoppable, my love! WE will master the fakers! Always and forever!
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Lord Freakzilla is a passionate and resourceful creative writer, experienced in studies of human behavior and psychology. His articles for “Bleeding Heart Chronicles “ is fueled by his compassion for the broken hearted. He also brings to the table his gothic poetry style for “Dark Rose Poems” series.
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